Gma Marie
Sunday morning, J got the call this his grandmother passed away. We knew it was coming. She had been diagnosed with Acute Leukemia a month earlier. Pneumonia kept slipping into her lungs. On August 26, 2007, while J was talking to the kids in Missouri about his sassy grandma, in Florida, she was raising her arms to heaven and saying, “I want to see my Jesus” and she was gone before her arms fell back to her side.
I could say that Marie was a spunky lady, but that seems to do her no justice. This woman made me want to pull my hair out one minute then the next she’s making me pee my pants cause she’s cracking me up so hard! She had some wacked out ideas and ways:
1. I remember talking with her about hair. She went once a week to her “beautician” to get her hair done; either colored, cut or just plain “done up”. She never did her own and wouldn’t wash it in between. I told her I wished I could afford to get my hair done more often and she asked me what I paid. Lordy! I thought she was going to cast the hair demon out of me right then and there! “WHY in the world would you give that kind of money to someone who just does hair? You tip?!?!? Oh, I NEVER. It’s their job. If they don’t like it enough to do it without a tip, then they should just get out! Jesus help ’em.”
2. That woman loved Jesus, but I think the devil took over her soul when she played Euchre or Zonko. She was conniving and greedy! And she kicked our tail-ends every. single. game.
3. She was a mama to everyone. Doesn’t matter how old or young. She would drive me nuts when it came to feeding my babies. She would ALWAYS over feed them and then tell me it’s healthy for them to puke half of it up! On the other hand, nobody can jiggle gas out of a baby better than Marie!!
I miss picking on you, Marie…I miss you picking on me…kind of. Marie, I know that you are finally where you so dearly wanted to be. I’m happy you no longer have to feel discomfort and anxiety. You are loved by your family….Howard’s heart is breaking every minute without you. Better get your mansion in order cause I’m sure he’ll join you soon. Love, your awnry granddaughter-in-law….Jen
**J will be officiating the funeral so I’ll be out more than in this week.